Rod Raglin

This blog will touch on the experiences I have as a writer (not to be mistaken for my experience as a writer, i.e. how many books I've written, etc); the pleasure and the pain, the joy and the grief, the satisfaction and the frustration, the magic and the reality - have I left anything out, oh yeah, the rejection, rejection and more rejection,  the humiliation and the embarrassment, the jealousy and the resentment - that pretty much covers it, except for why I do it which perhaps I'll realize along the way. Are you totally confused? Good, let's begin.

Stop apologizing for being a writer

Nietzsche said, “The essence of all beautiful art, all great art, is gratitude.”

 

Who’s gratitude was he referring to?

 

I write quite a few book reviews and it’s not uncommon for the author to comment on what I’ve said. Invariably they say thank you if the review is positive, and they apologize if I don’t like their book.

 

Is this the appropriate response?

 

Even if your book is poorly written but you’ve been honest and done your best isn’t that a remarkable feat?

 

What you’ve done is taken nothing and from your own wit and imagination created something. No one gave you a recipe, a blueprint or any type of plan beyond perhaps some suggestions, most of which you probably ignored.

 

How many other achievements in your life rank up there with writing a book? It’s not an accident of biology, the manifestation of greed, or the manipulation of public opinion. No one promised you unconditional love, wealth or fame and power.

 

And yet you’ve considered this project for years and labored for hundreds of hours on it.

 

You’re proud of your accomplishment and so you should be.

 

Why then do you thank someone when they offer a few crumbs of praise? Worse yet, why do you apologize when they’re critical of your accomplishment?

 

A more appropriate response from the reader or critic might be:

 

“Thank you for writing this book. I appreciate your commitment and the time you put into this worthy endeavor. Unfortunately, I didn’t enjoy it (or the opposite) and here’s why.

 

Your response should be, “You’re welcome,” or none at all.

 

Does it matter if people read your book? Does it matter if they liked it or didn’t like it? Does their opinion diminish the act of creativity?

 

I think it’s time to stop apologizing, time to stop being embarrassed for being a creator.

It’s time to look them in the eye and say, “I’m a writer and no my books don’t sell. Do you have a problem with that?”

 

Well, maybe it’s not time for that just yet.

 

Stay calm, be brave, watch for the signs

 

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My new novels, FOREST – Love, Loss, Legend and The BIG PICTURE – A Camera, A Young Woman, An Uncompromising Ethic are available as e-books or paperbacks on Amazon http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B003DS6LEU and as e-books at https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/raglin

 

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Visit my publisher’s website for excerpts from, and buy links to my Eco-Fi series ECO-WARRIORS, that includes Spirit Bear, Eagleridge Bluffs, and Not Wonder More – Mad Maggie and the Mystery of the Ancients http://www.devinedestinies.com/?route=product%2Fauthor&author_id=92

 

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